I finally got h to "suggest" that s9 needs counseling and agree to it. I set up an appointment with one, but was going to have to hide it from H and pay out of my own pocket. At least now it can go though H's insurance and we can split the copay. So tomorrow I will be making different arrangements for s9. Hopefully this is a door that will lead to some positives...
Have a good night everyone.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life