Not confused...trying to keep hope alive!!!

[wishing, hoping]

I think maybe your kids should see a counselor to help them cope. It's helped my S a lot. I am working to get my D to a counselor as well. A counselor can not only help them learn to cope, the counselor can give you solid advice on how to help them. What to say and what not to say.

I understand where you are coming from. Anger and frustration is hard especially when we momma bears see our cubs hurt.

Let me just say that if you decide to file and go for placement/custody you may see a change in him. My H was pretty hands off with the kids until we started fighting for placement then all of a sudden he was Mr. 50/50 making dinners, taking them to practices, concerts, etc. He was trying to set a precedent so he could prove he was fit for placement so he wouldnt have to pay more child support.

I'm sorry your day ended less than stellar. Just pull yourself together as well as you can and move on. Take care of yourself!!

WH