Learn his love language, read 5 Love langues, sorry my intial take is always aggressive primitive decision making, my later response is more thought through. Do some detective work will you, is he a porn addict or does he have any other gf, you should keep your finances even. Keep your cool, what's the deal with kids, get them into equation, get pregnant, some life changing events change people. Why don't you help him to empower, teach him to get busy to make more money, make love it could be one of his love language, emotional consistent connection. Unlearn some aspects which are habitual, do have marraige couselling or couple therapy there, find a common are to interact and spend meaning less time. Become a good habit
M - 39W- 38 M - 4 yr,Date-4 mths Son - 2 yr day care S - 9/12 Divorced- 10/10/13 Visits with son other week Working on myself & son,co-parent,change,assertive,alpha/beta, entrepeurneur,care,heal,centered
