Suckerpunch down to the wire

[labug]

Pay a couple hundred bucks and have the house appraised, then you can let all that go. You're making a lot of assumptions, why even do that until you know what's what. A real estate agent isn't an appraiser and even tho the agent may be close, you can't know until you find out.

You don't have to pay for an appraisal, but it might save you some gray hairs and your blood pressure.

So sell the house and then you can split the proceeds and neither of you be in debt. Yes, I know you can't sell so what's she to do? I'm really interested to hear your take on this.