I have really been enjoying the last few days.. Even though things have been hectic with the kids, I have just loved being with my family again, even if it is onlyfor a couple of hours..
Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
thanks Yall.
But no champ here. Just like everyone else here, trying to save my mariage..
had a bit of a set back today with W iming me saying its my weekend to go out, and I should go have a date..
I said only if its with her, she wrote back to stop it. That I need to let her go. I said ok..
But I am not ready to date, and you know my feelings about that and about you..
I didnt fight. I dbed. Just listened and validated..
I feel like she keeps testing me about the dating stuff.
I dont know.. Maybe
Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
kevin, do you remember some time back when this was happening? Your W would not treat you right, then she would be nice and ask for you to take her to Walmart, with you giving in? And now she is telling you to go out and get a date? I don't think this cycle is going to change until you do. Read what wiley has to say on his threads...he has some good advice for those who are going through what you are. She is bouncing back and forth because she doesn't know what she wants, but she DOES know she can have you back at her will. You might have to go back to DBing, I mean REALLY DBing. Don't be so easy, my friend. It doesn't seem to be working, especially when she tells you to cut her loose. Go back and re-read your old threads, learn from it...
Yeah your right, I just dont want to turn my back on my family. But will be more distant and harder to get in touch with.
Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
I dont know why, but I am in a pissy mood. I guess from the convo from the wife earlier... Got to get over it. She told me I needed to go out and have a date this weekend. Since its my weekend.. Whatever... Not gonna date. I dont know what she wants but I do know I dont want another woman, I want my wife.
Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
You know I'm the last person to be giving you advice but I do think that they tell us to date to take guilt off of themselves. Remember, just b/c she is telling you to date does not mean she wants you to. It is almost like us when we are acting "as if." I was upbeat in front of my H but that was NOT at all what I was really feeling.
Yeah I know what you mean. I was thinking the same way. I wont date I made that decision awhile back thanks to a lot of help from Opt.. Besides I dont want another woman, I want my wife and family..
Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
I had a good workout at the gym last night. I ran a mile then hit the weights for an hour. Man am I sore today. My wife asked to borrow the computer last night so I couldnt get online last night. I hope to have her computer fixed by this weekend. I will skip tonight at the gym, but I will be there tomorrow night. Its "my night out" As the W put it, so I am gonna go do what I want.. Why is it my night out when I dont get o have my son on the Saturday nights anyways.. I keep him on my weekends, which are Wednesdays and thursdays.. Still in a pissy mood, so I am gonna stay away from W. W startd pulling away from me yesterday, its amazing that I can see it now. We had almost a whole week of good times, only to have her pull back again. At least I can see it now so its easier to deal with. Like last night she called after having a few wine coolers,she called me, almost like she was trying to pick a fight, but I kept the convo upbeat and light.She wanted my calling card number, but I didnt have one that was any good. I told her about my workout, I asked to talk to my son and she wouldnt let me at first, but then for just a second.. I called back later and she had calmed down and I got to talk to him then, I always try to call him and tell him goodnight. Sometimes I wonder why the hell I want to stay married to this woman. Because sometimes I dont like this woman, well maybe its her actions and words that I dont like.. Will be patiently awaiting the next good upswing.. Hopefully it wont be too far away..
Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
You're a DB champion!