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Did you tell her you gave up? I'm betting you did not. She knows where you stand and what you want. Continue to not pressure her.
oh no, nothing of the sort, it just seems so long since I last told her how much I love her and how much I want our M to work, I often wonder what she is thinking.

As for dating site. I agree bad move. But with my big 40 just over a year away I feel a little pressured myself. Maybe this has triggered my own MLC as I do appear to be changing my whole outlook on life as to what is important to me etc. I really don't fancy being the other side of 40 and back in the dating game. I know 40 is still young, but it was not how I envisaged it!


Me: 38 W: 35
M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs
S8 D5
BD: Feb 13
Still Living Together

I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.