I'm apologize I didn't mean to take over this thread. There is so much insight here from LostinScared, I just got carried away and desperate for answers. Please see my posts to respond.
M: 49 H: 49 S23 D24 (disabled from car accident 6 yrs ago) M: 21yrs BD: 1 month after D home from hospital (after 6 months) D: 3/11/11 Moved: 10/11/11 to FL for SCI recovery X: engaged w/OW