Had a "date night" but with two other couples we are close to. One is W's best friend who is spending the afternoon with her and told me this week she is going to bring up the tat-boy thing based on the call she got two weeks ago from W telling her she was pming tat-boy. When we were in the bar at the restaraunt and everyone else was in the bathroom, she gave me a big hug, one that told me she understands. I hope so and if W will open up to anyone, it will be her. I am hopeful, but very anxious/nervous as well, knowing the stakes if W pushes back the other way.
For now, focusing in on being the best H I can be. Just went for a walk with W and dog. W is working out and I am going to start making brunch w kids in a minute. She is really into organics lately, so doing organic oatmeal w dried cherries and almond slivers, topped with organic honey, organic omelet with mushrooms (which I bought just for her, she knows I hate them), spinach and feta, and organic peanut butter smoothie. I found all the recipes online.
Happy Mother's Day to all of you Mother's who are going through this tough journey. I admire your courage and hope you have a wonderful day with your kids.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"