H said (about vaca w boys), "It will give me some time to get away from everything. I need that." OW TOO??? Okay, not going to mind-read, nope.
And, I told H the boys & I are having a Mem Day party & he is welcome to come. He asked who was invited & since it was "mixed crowd" --some people who know & some who don't his response was "It'll be weird if I come and weird if I don't. I don't know what I should do."
I said, "Well, come if you want. We'd love to have you."
The truth is it WILL be weird either way. There are some friends that don't know that will ask (probably) if he isn't there. And, there are some who will be confused if he is there.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
