House for sale. So sad. Family breaking apart.pt 4

[FloydMan]

I love you all for your honesty, straightforward thoughts and candour....keep it coming. This is definitely casual and will not involve the kids at all. I spoke at length about this with my therapist recently and she said it is nice to get out and feel special with someone, and others if need be. But she definitely echoes not involving the kids and watching my heart and hers. She coached me quite a bit on this. This counsellor is well renowned in these parts (I went for the best). I started seeing her 2 years ago when A first was exposed. The counsellor is a very special person and trust her opinion. So do the courts in these parts apparently.
I honestly have done all the hard work, and that was the problem. The counsellor hugged me and told me how proud she is of me. The ink isn't dry but the damage that was done and and xW's inability to get help for her own issues and her denial have led to more issues and unnecessary litigation. Separate ways is best answer for now as sad as that is. She won't work to be amicable or even coparent right now. She is out to destroy me in all ways for some reason. Well, she is not going to. I am who I am...the same guy she loved so much for so long...at least she claimed to.