Well, I guess I'm doing okay. It was not pretty, however after the shock of his divorce text wore off. I did reply back, and ask that he not have the paperwork brought to my job. I just asked him what the options were...
He replied back the next day, and asked if I would be willing to meet him at the courthouse over my lunch break?! I said, I didn't think that was a good idea. I asked him to send it certified mail, or have it presented at my house. This was on Monday. I have not heard from him since then. So no paperwork, yet.
As strange as this sounds, through all of this crap, I still love him very much. Which, I guess is part of the problem. I knew about his family stuff before we got married, and I accepted him. Concerning, LRT...I think that I have technically been doing this for a while. At the beginning of our separation, H would call me late at night, or just at random times. I wouldn't answer, and he eventually stopped. Now we do not speak, unless for business purposes, or apparently if I run into him randomly. I discovered awhile ago, that trying to keep contact with him, just proved to hurtful for me. He would answer the phone, but just go out of his way to be rude, or speak to me as it I was bothering him. So I think, that even though it was not my decision, I'm firmly in LRT. Do you think, I should try and speak with him? From what I know, he is still w/th OW
It just seems like this can never turn around...
M 32 H 35 M 3/ SS 8yrs BD 7/5/12 S 10/1/12 H wants Divorce 1/13 It's official served 5/13
