Originally Posted By: Emilys88
Maybe protecting my pride? Or my feelings.


Yes. There's a fear under that. Probably not a fear that maybe what he was saying was right, but maybe fear that you would be seen as weak or fear of being not worthy?

It doesn't matter from a DB perspective, but it might help you DB if you understand what the fear is. ie. If it was fear of being weak, you could DB some activities that show your strength.

Make sense?

You would have to dig pretty deep though, and many people aren't willing to do that.