Well, I didn't react nor did I say anything. It was just a feeling I had that I expressed here. I understand, and you're all right. I shouldn't have negative feelings about something that doesn't drastically effect me simply because it benefits her. I am angry. I admit that. I hate that she chooses to move on ans start a new life....but not let go of certain things that benefit her. That does anger me. I need to change my perspective on that. I honestly feel I am getting better. I didn't act out from my feelings. I just expressed them here.
Today, W texted me asking if she could spend mothers day with D. I agreed whole heartedly and said by all means. She asked what time I wanted D home and I said it was her day and she should spend it for however long she likes. Just bring D by whenever she chose to end her day. She then replied with another text demanding that I revise my settlement terms by the end of the week. She says she has given me plenty of time. I really tried to bite my tongue, but ultimately told her that I would be willing to include my retirement, half of our belongings and apropriate child support, not a penny more. She feels that is unreasonable because she was simply asking for a small amount.....40 grand. She said that I should incur the cost of having the house appraised so she could prove to me that there is equity.....that seems pretty unreasonable to me. I expressed that in the nicest terms I could. She responded by saying "You have until Friday!".....I discontinued the text conversations at that point.....More roller coaster riding I guess!
