I have to agree with this ^^^^^. Lawyers want what's best for them in the short term. NOT what's best for you in the long term.
The longer you can hold out, the better (and more fair) your deal with H will be. As a matter of fact, I just read somewhere tbat lawyers' D tends to be much shorter because they know Xs will jump at first deal they're offered because they know their Ss Ls will convince them to take the initial offer (and thus earn them their commission that much faster).
Good luck and please be strong.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13
