Originally Posted By: SFC_Swede
I broke rule 6 of LRT also! I spoke with the MIL for various reasons, including we are close. I have ZERO friends or people to lean on. I cant talk to my family becaus they will over react.

Am I dead for dong this?


Yep. Don't. Be nice be friendly but don't speak to MIL about your sitch.

Do not bring up D. I went from divorce to legal separation to mediator to I will support you through school to I will continue to support you so when you work you can stay in house..... The mindset is never set

If D comes up you can say that this is not the path I wish to take, but if this is what you need to do, I will not stand in your way.

If she is breadwinner, you may want a lawyer.

In my mind, she is separating everything because the actions mean that she means it. For her head. Do you understand? Some people have to say or do stuff out loud to make sure they are doing them.

Enough about W. what about you?? GAL? 180's?

Even though it feels like forever, it is just starting.
Are you sure PA is a deal breaker?