Hm, I suppose my H is on the different side of the isle. He thinks that he can find a better partner. He is not fit, almost bold, graying hair and beard, has to wear reading glasses almost all the time now, has some health conditions. I’m on the other side slim, look at least 10 years younger, get compliments from the guys everywhere I go, have a great carrier and very self-sufficient. When I meet with my GF at her bar (she is the owner), almost every time I’m asked for a date, or phone number, or coffee... I get compliments from the guys on how easy I’m to talk to and seem to have everything together. BUT… my H doesn’t value any of it. He thinks he can have a better version. So, go figure…
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state