"Good observation, that's how most people get into their second failed R...."Gee s/he "makes" me feel better, my spouse must have been crazy, I'm really OK and this feels so good!"
All the same stuff that gets people into affairs."
Which I read to mean "That's a dumb thing to say and dating (for an LBS) is a good way to get into another failed R."
Which I now realize was the exact opposite of your intentions.
So, when I wrote "thanks for not being sarcastic" (which itself was meant ironically) and you wrote "why would I be sarcastic?", I said "I was wondering that myself," meaning "I wonder why she is being sarcastic?" Which you weren't trying to be.
Looks like even though I've been making progress, the quick temper is still an issue for me.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13
