A lot of things to process. I can't believe you have the desire to hang on and still wait for him! He surely doesn't deserve you! He knows that but there is some replay he has to get out of his system. I'm sure glad my H didn't do the things your H is doing. Idk if I'd still be here.

But I'm so glad you are willing to wait. One day this will all be a bad memory. Even laughable he's so "out there"?

Are you feeling well? How are the boys?

Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway