Not everyone will agree on everything. What's true for one person is not true for another.

I'm not second guessing anyone else, merely stating my truth, also hard won. That's what we do here, speak from our experience and our growth. Take what you can use and leave the rest.

When you said Thanks for not being at all sarcastic or pedantic labug. and I was wondering that myself I felt confused because it seemed you were saying one thing but meaning another. What were you needing there?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss