Glad you felt better after you talked with her.

She seems really depressed and struggling. I think even the thought of making a decision about a car is too much for her right not.

I think you have to let her figure this all out, FY.

I know you know, that the thing about you BDing her is that it could bring with it a decision that doesnt include you.

And while you might think you are ready if that is the case, when it actually happens, it is difficult.

I absolutely understand you wanting movement in some way and I dont blame you.

I also think that she is comfortable with the way things are.

You are right to wait til after the trip and re-evaluate.

You really are a very special man. I hope and pray that she wakes up soon to realize it.

Sometimes it just makes me so sad and angry when I see this happen to good people. Life is so very short and we should grab whatever happiness we can.

In the end, it really is about seizing the moments that bring joy and laughter.