I really stepped on it, and am asking for help

[SFC_Swede]

Ok, I need help from some of the board veterans. I am reading DR, an fast forwarded last night to LRT. As painful as it is, I will do it moving forward.

My question is two fold. 1) Has anyone elses WAS moved this fast to get to a D before. Immediately separating bills, taking out loans to pay off debts, and distancing themselves so much from their LBS it isn't funny? I mean a 100% shut down of any feelings?

2) During a conversation we had...I validated all her concerns, complaints, and feelings (see above). And one of the things she asked was if I would fight the D and would she need an L. I thought I did the right thing by telling her that she didn't need a L and I wouldn't fight her if that's what she really wanted, and would sign them if presented. Was that the right thing to do? And then now how do I "drag my feet" as Newman suggested without looking desperate, infuriating her more, and going back on my word????

That seems to not help the sitch any either. I just feel she is running as fast as she can to a D before she changes her mind again, or gives time to see if changes can happen.

I wouldn't be surprised if she hands me something for signature next week. I really need some support here. PLEASE.

I know what I have to do with LRT. I have stopped behaviors, even though I am obsessing here. Just need some guidance. Because my T is only telling me to move on, and its not something I am comfortable with.