And the reason that there is a large percentage of failed 2nd marriages.
One day you are gonna wake up, and realize that the voice that is validating you, and saying the things that you want to hear, is not coming from the person you want it to be from....
Is that fair to them ????
Try to remember, that while you can somewhat control your emotions, and how you feel....
You cannot do that for someone else.
You cannot gauge how they feel, or if they are getting too close, or pulling away...
