About the custody and D, so why get involved at all until you're out of the M? If she's that special, she'll still be there.

This brings 2 things to mind for me, we get so p!ssed at our spouses for acting capriciously and not sticking around to do the hard work. Have you done your hard work?

And the kids, everyone agrees the break up of a M is hard on them, we hear about it constantly here but parents getting into another R is also difficult for them. Are your kids ready for this? Do they deserve some readjustment time.

Whatever you do, I wish you good luck. I know this has been a long, difficult slog.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss