Hey Bug, KP and AS,

I know....take it slow. Not sure what to make of it really so slow is definitely best. This will likely be the first of many, though I dated a couple ladies late last year but backed off as li was not ready. This seems different for some reason I cannot put my finger on. I have known her a while through some business and she and my XW actually know each other....not well though. She makes good money, more than I. No kids. She connects with me a lot and asked me out for tomorrow. I cannot get involved heavily as there is custody issues ongoing for the next few months. She knows the situation well. She keeps telling me what a great dad I am. She needs it quiet for her legal too for a while. She keeps telling me she misses me. It is nice to be attracted to and wanted. I have missed that.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.