Those are tough questions that I need to think about.....
The GAL is the toughest.... having a hard time adjusting to the loneliness without the wife and kids..

The complaints are easy to fix with some time, patience, and better communication. Life just got so complicated with work, the kids, the house, and everything else that our marriage took a back seat. I would re-prioritize everything around our relationship.

Detachment is killing me...keep wanting to linger, talk, and get some reassurance from her.