DBing, GALing and living oh my!

[cbtdad]

Thanks Cadet and Papa!
Yeah, she knows exactly where I stand and what my boundaries are.
I'm not going to just sit back and wait around while she decides what she needs to do to work on herself.
She knows the only way I am willing to work in this marriage is if she works on herself and wants to marriage to work for right reasons.
Thankfully if we do make it to MC she is very pro marriage and W knows this.
MC is totally solution based. She flat out said to us after only meeting with her in January that there was no point in scheduling anther appointment with her until we are moth committed to trying to make it work.
W has mentioned going to see her for IC. I just don't want it to be a conflict of interest and then we lose her as MC. But if she decides to go se her individually I would be happy. I just want her to be happy either way. With or without me. I need that for my son.
Even if we get to MC I don't know if it can work. I will commit and do everything I can. I just don't know if I will ever be able to trust her again