Papa, I hear you...but seriously most of us have been off the dating scene for decades. And that game is played completely different now. I couldnt even begin to know where to go meet a quality lady. I have looked at several dating sites as an experiment of sorts, and like Hotwheels said...the women are just as, or more shallow than we men are in their dating "requirements", or aret something that interests me.
Thats where the fear comes from.
But I can tell you this. In my experience, after 1M I desperately tried to find anyone to care about me. The desperation and neediness must have seeped off of me like a foul smelling cologne. The harder I tried, the more I struck out. It wasnt until I gave up and was just relaxed and didnt care that I met 2W. Cliche I know.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013
