My commiserations, guys. I know how it feels to have such strong feelings for your W, only to have her treat you like a rack of garden tools.

That feeling of...not curiosity, really. And not real dread, at least not yet, lol. But the more inevitable things seem to become, and the more work I do on myself, the more I think about what life is going to be like back out in the dating world.

I think that if and when the time comes, there are plenty of W who will be a great fit. Speed dating seems like a great option, you can meet people by participating in clubs and activities.

In short, don't get too down about it because there are options.

M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13