DBing, GALing and living oh my!

[Papa4Life]

I'm really sorry to hear this, cbtdad. But it sounds like you have got your priorities straight. It's good that you're working on yourself and focussing on your R with your S.

Try to stay active and be positive. Don't dwell on your sitch or let yourself be troubled thinking about some d-bag who would prey on a married woman who is having trouble in her M. He ain't worth it.

You on the other hand ARE worth it. So find the things that will make you happy.

And I agree with what cadet wrote. MC would not work if W is not willing or able to work on the M. If your MC isn't strongly pro-M, they're likely to say, well, it seems like you are unhappy in the M, so it's probably best if you just get a D. Sadly Ican say this from experience.