i held onto anger thus not showing affection to him when he asked for it

I agrued just to be right sometimes

I let my temper control my words instead of walking away to cool down and then later try to talk things through

looked to him for my happiness instead of getting myself out there and making myself happy.

H:25 M:25
T: 9 1/2 Yrs
M: 5 Yrs

trouble in paradise: 1/18
Big D: 2/10
EA confirmed 3/11
H Leaves me: 3/30
Files: 4/8
Served: 4/15
OW Confirmed: 8/6
Divorce Final: ???