You do sound good Peter and good for your sense of humour as well. It will serve you well.
I think it's perfectly fine to sit back and let the wind blow through one's hair. Well, it was fine when I had hair on my head, now I have to bare my arms to get that same sensation...
Still, take that time to look into yourself and define who you are from the inside and then go out in the world and do the things that person would do.
