Hi Limbowife, have you picked up and read "Divorce Remedy"? If not, please do so as it will help you understand some of the dynamics and give you some ideas of how you can proceed and possibly help save your M.
Also, if there is any possibility for you to get a DB coach, that may also be of benefit.
You indicate you believe your H is MLC. Someone who just doesn't come home one night certainly does seem suspiciously like MLC. What other signs make you think your H is MLC.
This is always a tough situation to be in, regardless of MLC or some other "reason". You will go through some emotional cycling during this time, as you likely already have. It does get better, even though it may not feel like it, right now.
Since he left and before he left, did he give any reasons why he left or that there was trouble brewing?
Does he have any major, specific complaints about the M or you?
How has the M been (prior to his leaving) from your perspective?
