It may take him a while to figure out his responsibilities in the breakdown of the M. Maybe he never will, but there is always a chance he might.

Good for you for taking charge of your life and moving forward. It will serve you well in the future.

I understand that you feel down, we all had cycles and you will need time to process your feelings as they come up. Try not to get stuck in them.

In the mean time, have you given any thought to you responsibilities that contributed to the breakdown of the M? What might those things be?