How would you resolve some of the complaints she had about you? Think about this not from your M and W's perspective, rather how would you 180 those complaints as though it were with OTHER people, like co-workers, friends or family members?
Drop any expectations of her. Even though counsellor asked her to do some homework, don't expect that she will do the homework. If she does, great. It can be quite normal for the WAS / MLCer to not do therapy homework or anything else that relates to the M or D, for that matter.
