Originally Posted By: Portia


I agree with this ^^. "Jump starts" are what our WAs/MLCers depend on to make them feel good. I do not want to be someone's emotional crutch, nor do I want someone to be my emotional crutch. Because then, what have I learned? That I can apply a band-aid as well as my partner did?

But self-respect and self-love that comes from a pure place inside of each of us is right for all.


Thanks Portia. You stated that quite nicely.

A quick fix is not a long term solution.


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl