Yep, labug is right, while each of us have sitches that have some common threads, each of us walks this in our own time and in our own way.

You get there in your own time. And you dont want to skip any steps because every step of this journey is important.

You werent ready to really "hear" what was being told to you. Now you are.

And yea, back in the day, Mach got me for using the word, but.
LOL! But I aint scart of him.........;)