Divorced-not done-But wondering ?

[jaytee35]

Jjac,

I hear you completely and you are right. We are in very similar situation with our wives. My wife is very closed and has only initiated contact with me like twice since January. Valentines day I did what you are doing as well. I decided to give my wife a card, and deliver flowers and dinner to work. All I got in response was..."I got your delivery, thank you" which was nice but in hindsight I wish I would have know that she filed for divorce the day before!!!!!

But I do agree with you, at this point we do not have much to lose. Let's just make sure we are detaching with love and giving them thier space. I am currently very dark with her and the divorce proceedings. If our wives are meant to be with us, they will come back some day!

I am told constantly to be patient on this site.....and lord know I am being patient. You do the same cause thier is no timeline to reconciliation. I wish you all the luck in the world and I hope to hear a positive ending from you