MrCas...actually it is. I can tell she wasnt going to tell me, but she was wearing a tank top and I saw the top and cellophane cover (told you I am observant). So I asked, and she showed me. I complemented it, and validated her reasons.

Lovethehub...I appreciate the kind words. I am not a bad guy...I'm not. I am that guy you want at your back. But in my youth, I made immature and grave errors. Alcoholism gripped me for years (god I wish I had just a pittance of the money I squandered away). Not something I am proud of, but beating it 6 yrs ago and staying sober is. My W doesnt have many complaints about me, other than my addictions which acted as wedge and trust issues when I would promise to stop, get caught, lie about it...well, you know the drill


Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013