Divorced from a WAW....gut feelings

[JJAC2005]

This happened a month after D? That's different, usually they're cold before D, then once D happens they warm up. Crimson and his XW are just now starting to piece, it didn't happen until after their D.

Stander...
I can only say ....like so many others here....that I only wished I would have had these books and information before the end date.
I really dont think that she wanted the D, I only think she wanted me to change.
I filed because I thought that was what she wanted...and that was what was going to make her happy. (I made so many clasic mistakes in trying to keep this M alive)
But from the day I filed to a month after the final D...she was wanting to see each other, do things together and still be somewhat of a family...in fact she looked me right in the eye and said that she only was divorced on paper, not in her heart or mind.
Now...all I can say is that that M had to end, it had to die in order for both of us to move to a place to heal and to repair ourselves.
I am GAL and things are going very well....but I really miss them all each and every day
Some days i need a little more help with detaching...and patence...but it will get there
Some stories have happy endings right away...some a little longer...and even some many years down the road.....and even some that never get back to that point at all.
But there is no way to predict what will happen for each of us...we just need to do what we need to do for ourselves.
Be true to that which we want to be and it will be all alright!