Get A Life....I moved into an apartment today and bought some furniture. Worked out tonight for the first time in 3 months.
Cooked dinner and ate....was actually hungry.

Stop trying to small talk with her....stop lingering when I visit with the kids.
Stop being fearful and self loathing in her presence. She's made me think I'm some kind of monster.
Stop expecting her to be my wife when I see her.
Giver her the time and space she needs without pressuring her to talk about the future and the relationship.

The big test is going to be next Tuesday when we have our 2nd joint counseling session. The counselor asked her for a plan for the next phase of the separation. She's supposed to introduce the plan at the next meeting.
I feel like she's trying her hardest to frustrate me and get me to file the divorce......

What am I missing???