I don't have a lot of advice for you because I am new here, too, but I want you to know that I (and I am sure, most) do not think you are a horrible person because of what you wrote. We all do the best we can with what we have and know. Sometimes it takes a situation like this to wake us up and realize that maybe we can do better. I wish you the best of luck on this DB journey
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
