Thanks J..
I'm ok with taking the chance on the gift and gesture... and I really dont have any expectations.
The way I see it is that I have not gotten any contact from her since Christmas....So I dont really have anything to loose here (50/50 chance of something positive or negitive) and eve if its taken poorly, it should be only a minor set back.
There are really only a few things that really could happen here anyway.
She could take it and throw it in the trash...or
She could accept it and say something nice afterwards....or keep it and say nothing more about it.
But NO matter what her external reaction is, I am certain that she will eventually smile on the inside at what I did for her....and how this gift fits perfectly with everything that is going on right now in her world.


M 52
W 40
D 15 (step)
S 12 (step)
Married 7, together almost 8
Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..."
BD final 8/22/12