Dan, if I am reading her texts right, she is 100% full bore set on moving on with OM. She is being selfish, and as much as that hurts...its not your fault! Dont blame yourself, embrace yourself.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013