Is she in a MLC? Who knows, maybe. She was always a home body when her S was little and didnt leave him often. Now that he is 16...she has been going out more often with friends. Its possible she is now tasting the "single life" she missed out on for 16 years.

As for me...the drinking hasnt been an issue for 6 years. I am cold sober. Now the chewing tobacco is the new R killer according to her. I want to quit. I am trying. Been without it for 3 weeks, but chewing nicotine gum like a race horse. nicotine is one evil drug. I thought quitting drinking was bad...HA! But I am trying, and even reached out to a hypnotherapist to see if that can work.


Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013