I think your w said very clearly how she felt. You heard it, right?
And I think that she feels at this time that though you have made changes, she is not anywhere near feeling that they are permanent yet and does not want to take the chance that they arent.
I feel that she wants you to really hear her and how hurt she is. I think you let her know that you did.
So, there really isnt anything else to say to her at this point.
What she needs now is to figure herself out.
I wrote something on JP's thread about them being able to feel heard. You might want to check it out.
Chris, she is very confused and conflicted and since she was vunerable with you, she now feels that she has to back off so as not to give you the wrong impression.
Doesnt mean she will always feel this way. Just how she feels now.
Best for you to honor her words about figuring herself out and then do the same for yourself.
