Thanks guys...

JP - thanks for following.... Appreciate the support and feel we're fairly similar in sitch and what we trying to overcome. Thoughts and prayers with you...and keep in touch.

Spartan - yup, very eerily like earlier conversations weve had. Big exception is she kind of opened up more about specifics of how she felt let down...I omitted some of the minut detail. I think you're right she still feels pressure from me. I need to lean out, and let her walk her own path.

ACC - Yup, it was very tempting to point that out, but, I bit my tongue. Thanks for the support...I'm trying my best. Interesting thing about your last point of mirroring back to her what I heard. She was just here dropping off D for the weekend. We had that conversation, she corrected me on one thing (used the wrong word, so wrong meaning type thing) and nodded her head, etc.... However, I have a question for you guys. She seemed to have her WAS strength back today. Very stone faced, very little said...certainly no opening up! This also shakes me on the inside...I think maybe she's moved on...etc... Need reassurance this is normal WAS behavior....

Thanks guys and everyone



M: 38
W: 43
D: 4
T: 14
M: 7
BD & W left: 03/01/13