IC saw a marked improvement in my demeanor. I smiled a few times, brighter face, etc.
I told him I really don't know why I'm not worrying right now. I think it may be 2 things: what my pastor told me yesterday, and, I really don't have any hope of seeing or hearing from W until we meet w/C next week, so I'm not stressing over how to make it happen.
He had an interesting take on the releasing, detachment...if my W is resisting R because she blames me for her pain, then not pushing, pulling, manipulating takes that opportunity for blame away, makes her see that yes, her decisions are a source of pain.
Me 46 W 43 S 21 D 18 S 17 M 22 yrs Discovered OM 9/10/12 W moved to sister's 9/15/12 W moved to OM 9/27/12 Tried to DB until 7/13 W filed 10/7/13. Did not serve. I counter filed 12/2/13.