Mine started working out like she was training for a prize fight. Started dressing nicer. Started really getting religious about shaving her legs and skin. I see clothes and shoes coming in from different online stores. And her physical therapy sessions went from where she was there from 6 to about 7:30...to later 8...to later 8:30...to where I am lucky if she walks through the door at 9 to 9:30.
Swede, I'm going to read your sitch since it sounds so similar. I do know that my W sometimes goes to the bar afterwards with people from the gym -- she tells me this. Last week she complained about her weight. She is thin, but I didn't tell her this - I try to validate what she feels. Anyway, she eats very healthy and exercises like mad. I suggested that if she stopped drinking that would make a difference. Ha, she didn't like that suggestion.
The latest from my W is getting a laser procedure on her face to tighten it up. She went to the dermotologist who told her she did need it. Yesterday she went again to hte person who actually doesthe procedure, and this person told her she didn't need it. My W argued that she did. Sort of a preventive procedure? Doesn't make sense to her, I just listen and ask her about it without suggestion that she gets or doesn't get the procedure.
