im not surprised. people are always quick to judge. because i don't talk about myself to people i have just met and because i stated that guys crying at me makes me uncomfortable, i am labeled rude. i am however far from rude. i am respectful and sometimes blunt. i don't lie or pretend to be someone i'm not. in a room full of people who are used to blaming others to take the focus off of themselves, i am a convienent scape goat. im used to it. im used to being blamed. dealt with it wit my XW for years. everything is always my fault. whether it is true or not, im pretty used to hearing it. people can make assumptions and judge me all they want. i know who i am. if i dont open up and cry about my problems to complete strangers in a group setting...sure, i'm rude.
