Thank you RH, I really appreciate it. I have thought a lot about FB as well. I do think that it is such an easy medium that in and of itself, the temptation of it is inherently dangerous when your marriage is vulnerable. Things that you might have not acted on and instead you would have focused on fixing your marriage become really easy to act on. But, in the old days (or I guess now, hopefully not) it could be the guy at the gym or the coworker, and I would have no idea. So, it in a way is maybe better that it is in my face? Don't know, [censored] either way and I appreciate your empathy.

CB

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"